Mending a Broken Relationship

Mending a Broken Relationship and Seeking God's Guidance

"And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them." - Romans 8:28 (NLT)

Good morning Ekklesia, the pain of a broken relationship can weigh heavily on your heart, especially when you still desire to love and be loved by your ex-partner. You may find yourself asking, "Should I pursue mending this relationship? Is it worth repairing? Am I choosing the right partner, God? Is my choice your choice?" These are profound questions that deserve careful consideration and divine guidance.

Romans 8:28 reassures us that God can bring good out of every situation for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. This means that even in brokenness, God is at work. He sees your heart and understands your desire to make things right this time. Yet, it’s crucial to seek His will above all else.

In your journey to mend this relationship, reflect on Colossians 3:13, which encourages us to, "Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others." Forgiveness is a cornerstone of healing and restoration. It doesn’t mean ignoring past hurts but choosing to release them to God and allowing Him to heal both hearts involved.

Romans 8:28 emphasizes God's sovereign ability to orchestrate all events for the ultimate good of those who are committed to Him. The Greek word for "work together" (συνεργέω, synergeō) indicates a synergistic effect, where God harmonizes various elements in life, including our relationships, for a greater purpose. This assures us that God’s hand is present in every aspect of our lives, guiding us toward His perfect plan.

1. Pray for Clarity: Seek God’s guidance earnestly in prayer. Ask Him to reveal His will regarding your ex-partner and whether pursuing restoration aligns with His plan for you both.

2. Evaluate Honestly: Assess the relationship with honesty. Consider whether both parties are willing to make changes and whether the relationship is spiritually, emotionally, and mentally healthy.

3. Forgive and Heal: Embrace forgiveness as a step toward healing. Forgive past mistakes, and ask for forgiveness where needed. Allow God to mend your heart as you seek to restore the relationship.

4. Seek Wise Counsel: Talk to trusted mentors or spiritual leaders within your faith community. Their insights can provide valuable perspective and help you discern God's voice.

Heavenly Father, I come to You with a desire to mend this broken relationship. Guide me in Your wisdom and reveal whether this is the path You have chosen for me. Help me to forgive and to be forgiven, and to hear Your voice above all else. Let Your will be done in my life and in this relationship. In Jesus' name, Amen.

My Ekklesia Family, let's trust in God's ability to work all things together for our good. As we seek His guidance in mending broken relationships, may we find clarity, healing, and the courage to follow His leading.

LoveUmorethanUknow Pastor Stephän Kirby